GIFTS OF 2008

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GIFTS OF 2008

Years change so do days but sometimes amid these changes the course of your life and that's what happened in 2008 to me. :)

The year started with lots of wishes but slowly it brought lot of gloom & un happiness . I started thinking that this would be my one of the worst year. But my belief in the saying " THINK POSITIVE" made all the difference. I visited CA in july & very 1st day my brother took me to a book store & bought me a magic lamp ;) I never thought the book would bring such a drastic change in my life. I was far from dark sad nights towards a new dawn in my life.

After returning back from CA i told him[some 1 special] about that book , at that time our relation was going towards end. I followed the book & started changing my self slowly slowly and he did the same. Then we both decided to give our relation 1 more chance . Christmas vacations , those 10 days became my life's best days . OMG I am again in LOVE with him & day by day its increasing. Every day is now 1st day of my love life :) .We know each other from very long time & know that we love each other but in long run it was fading . Ending of 2008 revived my love life. I am very very happy.

Rather than this 2008 showed me many shades of friendship & love. I met my new sis , bestie, my jaan DEBU in 2007 but our friendship became stronger in 2008. I got my APPLE I-MAC in 2008. I got 14 gifts on my B'Day..as its on 14th day of month. My MOM's illness got cured at the end of 2008..that was the best thing that happened. I became a working committee member of INDIAN ASSOCIATIONS in a very short span of time. Its 1 sort of achievement . Nov 2008 was my best B'Day till date.

" THANKS & GOOD BYE 2008"

SWAPPING

I know lots of people who would PEEP here with the thought 'OMG' what a bold subject but beleive me you will be amazed after reading whole .:)

This is all about change of perception. SWAPPING OF LOVE from past some months M love interest is changing , I am giving more respect now.

OH ! HO ... I am talking about country n its people yaar :D. I was fan of USA since childhood.I always said "if i go to USA, i will never come back". But after coming here within month or two I got a drastic cultural shock and I started thinking of leaving USA and wanted to go back to my country.

But as i said from past some months i am in love with USA as i am seeing good things, not only in love with USA but in love with the people of USA .

People here have amazing POSITIVE ATTITUDE . OMG I have never seen before. Everyone you will see is like praising each other like anything, ing lots of encouragement and always POSITIVE VIBES. They think positive in every manner. I was like.. " HUM INDIANS KO INSE SEEKHNA CHAHIYE".

I am going to tell you one TRUE EXAMPLE of it :- in LAS VEGAS a girl name BRITNY was attacked by someone n that boy killed her sis n make her handicapped! Her mother went to jail for negligence as she locked her kids daily in trailer & went for gambling.BRITNY got new home new family who took care of her & encouraged her to do something on her own! Besides she had become handicapped.Those boys got caught & they got jail too. She wrote a letter to her mother & asked for her adoption to a new family, every thing settled down slowly. 1 day when she came across reporters...a journalist asked her "are you angry on your mother & those murderers?" Her answer was surprising enough for me.. "I know my mother is not good she gave us hell life but i m not angry with her.. i talk to her once a week as she is my biological mother but i dont love her. I am also not angry with murderers... it's sad that my sister is not with me but i want to say thanks to them as they tried to kill me & i m saved & now i got a very loving family, if they hadnt tried to kill me i would not have got that loving family despite i m handicapped now. But I am very happy with my new life..."

OMG what a POSITIVE ATTITUDE. MY SALAM TO AMERICAN POSITIVE SPIRIT .

UNFORGETABLE DY

I knw guys its too late..bt i still wanna share my special day n some of my friends make it more special this year....14/11/2008.. right guess... it's my B"DAY.

 My B"DY always start at mid ni8 ...when i was in india all friends used 2 call at ni8 only bt now i m at usa so not expecting much only few calls . But got so many unexpected calls...

Before 12 Garv called  bt before 12 he ends it exact on 12 DEBU called me unexpectedly as i was not expecting her call ..me thrilled  love u Debu..than Anni ji called me to come online where he was ready to celebrate my b;dy from india... i felt too good and touchy as i love him as my kid..he is my boy..love u. I cut the cake , than got call from Garv after Garv's call my bhatiji Varuna called me my sweet loving  beti i love her a lot she is my pet.. than my didz called me than Nimisha called me  than my Mamma . 1 very unexpected call was from Manu she is my bestmate from school time .. we share a relationship that doesn't need any words..hum ek doosre se saalo baat na bhi kare to bhi koi farak nahi padta  we remain always same as we are.. love u Manu... last but not least most unexpected and omg..it's Swapnil's call..the way he wish me omg i never imagined that.. he wish me by singing whole b'day song in such a sweet way that i still remember and smile came on my face.

I get lots of gifts  directly and indirectly.... all are so special and near 2 my heart 4 ever.

I got 14 gifts for each day of nov till 14th..

>From Debu i got special place in her blog.... http://share-moments.blogspot.com/2008/11/nov-14-one-more-reason-to-celebrate.html  

love u Debu 4 this

>Garv sent wishes on local Uganda radio and also asked eople 2 wish me ..so nice & so sweet of him..thats called a besti..

>Swapnil scold me for not gave address to him as he wanna send me some gift..so sweet of him

>Gaurav  my old friend GJ made 1 thread in his community dedicated 2 me n wrote a song for me ...so nice of him.

My B'day girl

My B'day girl

Girl..girl..girl..girl....

Dhokla Khila de

Jo khilade agar woh parathe...desi ghee waale

Haske dikhade,

GJ ko kabhi tu US se phone milale

GJ ke sath tu photo khicha le ..phir thoda b'day bhi bana le

Par GJ yeh maane na dekhi koi aisi US girl[na dekhi koi aisi us girl]

Dekhi lakh lakh B'day girl...

Ain't nobody like my B'day girl..

Dekhi lakh lakh B'day girl

Sab toh soni saadi B'day girl

Who's the hottest girl in the world?

My B'day girl

My B'day girl

My B'day girl

My B'day girl

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My day was ended after having very nice dinner at '' OLIVE GARDEN''..

In this way all my friends made my B'Dy an UNFORGETTABLE DAY of life..

THANKS 2 U ALL N LOVE U A LOT......

UR'S LOVING FRIEND...

VAISHALI/ VASU/ADITI/VAISU/SWEETS............

EK SAWAL

In dino aksar 1 sawal mujhe pareshaan sa kar jata hai...''kya hum wahi zindagi jee rahe hai , jo hum jeena chahte hai''?? Mujhe lagta hai ki aksar log jeena kuch tareeke se chahte hai aur woh kuch aur tareke se jee rahe hote hai...mein bhi apne liye yahi sochti hoon...kitna aasan ya kitna mushkil hai apni tarah ki zindagi jeena..aur kya humara parivaar  hume itni aazadi deta hai ki hum humari tarah se zindagi jee sake...may be its  little easy 4 boys than girls. Yeh sab mere mind mein bachpan se tha par USA aane ke baad yeh sawal aur pareshaan karne laga..kyuki yahan sabko apne tarah se jeene ki aazadi hai..jaise mere neighbourhood mein ek 12 yrs ke kid ne python ko apna pet banaya hai to ek ne gieco [1 type of lizard] ko apna pet banaya hai..itni azadi soch mein aur karne mein kya india mein hai..?? ya yuh kahu to indian samaj mein hai? shayad nahi..

mein aap sabhi se iss sawal ka jawab jaroor anna chahungi ki...'' KYA AAP APNI ZINDAGI APNE TAREEKE SE JEE RAHE HAI?'' ..aur kya aap apne parivaar ke virudh jakar apne sapne sakar karne ki himmat rakhte hai ya jo chal raha hai usko except kar lete hai....

feel free to express your views.....

Antim Sanskaar

Yeh zindagi kab kahan kaisa mod le le kise pata chalta hai? Zindagi hai to sapne bhi hote hai. Kuch poore kuch adhure aur hote hai kuch aise bhi jo toot jaate hai aur sath tod dete hume bhi.

         Pata nahi kab yeh sapne zindagi ka hissa bante chale gaye. Pata na tha ki yeh wo kamzoor sapne hai jo apne sath bahut kuch le jayenge. Yeh tutate rahe par ussne  apne aap ko kabhi unke sath tootne nahi diya. Buland iraade rakhe aur himmat bhi. Waqt gujarta gaya , sapne bade hote gaye aur sath hi poora hone ki aas bhi..

           Woh waqt dheere dheere aane laga jab himmat bhi kamzoor padne lagi, ehsaas to hua par dil ne manne se inkaar kiya. Har koshish nakamyabi ki seedhi banti chali gayi. Aisa nahi tha ki usse kuch nahi mila....mila na--''tareefe aur tareefe''. Par... ''tareefo se kya kabhi pet bhara hai kisi ka..??'' Kamyaabi wahi kehlati hai jo pet ke sath aapka bank balance bhi bhare.

             Aaya fir woh din jisne badal di uski duniya..''ek antim koshish aaj''..yahi soch ke nikali thi ghar se..issi ke liye ki thi mehnat peechle 25-20 dino se. Itn jyada yakeen tha ki aaj milegi asli kaamyabi.. Din gujarta gaya aur gujar gaye uske sapne bhi. Aaj woh toot gayi poori tarah...Kisi tarah usne apne sapno ko sameta aur ek ek karke har sapne ko dafan kar diya, usse kahan pata tha ki unsapno ke sath woh apni aatma bhi dafan kar rahi hai..Bakse{box} ko band karte hi laga aatma to andar hi kahi hai baki saaman ke sath...

             Woh baksa uske sapno ka hi nahi varan uska apna taboot ban gaya. Yeh kaisa antim sanskaar tha..na koi aaya na kisi ne dua ki aur bass- - - -

SAB KUCH KHATAM HO GAYA

SAB KUCH KHATAM HO GAYA

'' KASH WOH APNI EK ANTIM ICHA POORI KAR PAATI,

UNSAPNO KE SATH USSI TABOOT MEIN KHUD BHI SO JATI...''

UNDERSTANDING

Apart from relatives before marriage we have certain relations or friends are important for us. They really mean to us, but I have seen that after marriage most of time partner didn't understand or realise that those relation are really mean to other partner and we should respect them also.

 If husband's friends are important so wife should be cooperative and meet and maintain that friendship is important. Same applies for husband also, if some relations are important for wife than he should respect them equally.

 Why friendship ruin after marriage? I didn't understand this. I seen it from very closely as it happen in our friendship circle also. Distance in cities or homes doesn't make distance in heart, I believe in it and really mean it also.

 Every person has its own positive and negative. I believe maintain the relationship is tough and loosing friends are so easy. Easy ways are most of time are wrong. Beauty of relationship is to maintain it not ruin it . What if  friend of your's partner is not think same as you, not same age as you, not in same status as you.... these all  should not matter in friendship.

What really matter in friendship please tell me.....

AKELAPAN

''Baras rahi ghanghor ghata,

chal musafir chatri utha

chalna hai tujhko akele

chahe ghata garje ya bijli chamke

hai kaal raat ke kaal andhere

saye talak na sath hai tere

kar na kisi se aas tu abb

apno ne sath diya hai kab??

gar manjil tumhe pani hai

apni rah khud banani hai

toofano mein kashti chalani hai

madya manjhdhaar mein hi thah pani hai !!''

AZAB DUVIDHA

'' EK MANN EDHAR BHI, EK MANN UDHAR BHI ,

    KISE CHUNU HAI YEH AGNI PARIKSHA !

    HAI YEH ULJHAN KI KAUN HAI NYARA ?

    AZADI PYARI KI DESH JYADA PYARA ??

EK DHARTI WOH JAHAN LIYA JANAM ,

EK WOH JISE DIYA BACHPAN SE MANN !

EK TARAH HAI SAARE APNE.....

ESS AUR HAI SATRANGI SAPNE....

DHADAKTA HAI DIL, DARTA HAI MANN ,

KHO NA DU KAHIN APNO KO VIDESHI BANN !

DESH KI AUR KADAM BADHA KEHTA HAI DIL ,

HAR DIN APNE KEHTE HAI AAKAR JALDI MIL !!

DOOJI TARAF HAI SAPNE BULATE ,

MANN KO WAHIN KHEECH LE JAATE !

KYA KARU MEIN EH YEH AZAB DUVIDHA ,

DIMAG HAI JO MANN KA SATH NAHI DETA....

HAI ''VAISHALI'' YEH PARIKSHA KI GHADI

MANN BADA YA DIMAG KI SOCH BADI.....?? ''

DILEMMA

I don't have any answer for this Mona. 

I just say this but question asked by  her still keeping my mind working.

I started thinking all the things said by her....

No 1 is perfect in this world. But when we idolised someone from childhood and after a long period we got  to know that he is not with that strong character.

We can forgive our friends for all mistake they do, even our brother sister at some extend, but can we forgive our parents so easily & comfortably  for their mistakes ? 

----- here the point... NO  we can't...specially when its come to  our ideal is our own father .. 

Same thing happen to her. Her ideal was every thing to her. But same time as a women she always thought some personal things are not good in him. She even don't like his father-mother's ''sweet-sour'' relationship as sour is more there. But in young age she got to know a very bad part of her father. She was just shattered....

She talked to me only. She asked ''can i ever forgive my father or have same faith on him now..?'' this is one mistake  that i knw , its make me more ''shaqui'' as now onwards i am not going to have that much faith on him.

I don't have any answers. I just keep saying calm down. What else i can say ? as this is very personal n confidential matter.

But my point is... someone can forgive his/her parent's mistake...? & treat them as normal other human being ..?

WHEN WE FORGIVE OUR FRIENDS RELATIVES  EVEN SIBLINGS THAN WHY NOT PARENTS ? I KNOW ITS VRY DIFFICULT BUT THEY ARE ALSO HUMAN BEINGS THEY CAN ALSO DO MISTAKES...

BUT WE BOTH ARE IN GREAT DELIMMA ....

WHAT YOU SAY GUYS ....PLZ DO COMMENT..