10/28/2008

EK SAWAL


In dino aksar 1 sawal mujhe pareshaan sa kar jata hai...''kya hum wahi zindagi jee rahe hai , jo hum jeena chahte hai''?? Mujhe lagta hai ki aksar log jeena kuch tareeke se chahte hai aur woh kuch aur tareke se jee rahe hote hai...mein bhi apne liye yahi sochti hoon...kitna aasan ya kitna mushkil hai apni tarah ki zindagi jeena..aur kya humara parivaar  hume itni aazadi deta hai ki hum humari tarah se zindagi jee sake...may be its  little easy 4 boys than girls. Yeh sab mere mind mein bachpan se tha par USA aane ke baad yeh sawal aur pareshaan karne laga..kyuki yahan sabko apne tarah se jeene ki aazadi hai..jaise mere neighbourhood mein ek 12 yrs ke kid ne python ko apna pet banaya hai to ek ne gieco [1 type of lizard] ko apna pet banaya hai..itni azadi soch mein aur karne mein kya india mein hai..?? ya yuh kahu to indian samaj mein hai? shayad nahi..

mein aap sabhi se iss sawal ka jawab jaroor anna chahungi ki...'' KYA AAP APNI ZINDAGI APNE TAREEKE SE JEE RAHE HAI?'' ..aur kya aap apne parivaar ke virudh jakar apne sapne sakar karne ki himmat rakhte hai ya jo chal raha hai usko except kar lete hai....

feel free to express your views.....

5 comments:

Manik said...

Well I don't think others grant you freedom! In our country, pardon me since am a boy may be it is easy for me, I don never hesitate in going against wishes of my parents as far as doing things as per my wish is considered and knowing this they quite very less ask me for compromising with most ambitions of mine. They are I guess always of the thought that we should follow some standard social practices but it is never binding. The limits come only when we agree to be bound by some boundaries. Whenever am back in Delhi they expect me to spend a lot of time with them, quite natural, but I prefer it with my friends or on my PC and do what I feel like. even staying out till 12 despite parents suggesting not to do so is quite a regular thing. All this since I keep clear with them what things I am ready to do and what not. I get more than enough freedom on my levels and may a time am bound to think "Do I deserve so much of freedom?" Hopefully am able to translate this freedom into something exceptional so I have not to regret!

Debarati said...

Well i havent comprised for anything i had dreamt of.....my parents have never been so hard to supress my thinkings or doings..may it be late nights or going out with friends,.. they never ever have stopped me from doing a thing as far as i was right!taking posting at pune or may be raat bhar jaag k PC par baite raho...night chats!!
they havent yet stopped me from fulfiling my dreams...and i dont think they will ever do it!n if i knw my dreams are right..i wont mind fighting for it!!

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Nilabh a.k.a Neil said...

Well even in my case if you ask me sometimes only my mom says "itni der raat tak kya karta rehta hai computer" but still I chat alot coz they atleast know me very well that i'll manage everything and with everything they literally mean by studies which i tackle it in my own way..

My brother who always shouts on me if I do a wrong thing but still whatever I get all my friends see and then they use to say "kaash hamara bhai bhi aisa hota".

Well its not that ki you don't have freedom..just try to give some time to this thought and then you yourself will agree that yes you've got some freedom..

take care and keep it up the good work..[:)]

Vaisshali said...

Thanks Manik..Debz..Vijay Kumar ji n Nilabh..for sharing your thoughts ... !! aap sabhi ke view point mere liye valuable hai ..!!