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HI! FRIENDS CONFUSED BY TITLE?? NO NO DEAR I M NT GOING 2 TEACH U ENGLISH ALPHABETS..

THIS ARTICLE IS BASED ON MY 3 MONTHS EXPERIANCE & MANY TIMES LISTEN BY AMERICAN-INDIANS ON VISIT TO INDIA.VERY 1ST TIME I COME TO USA & WTHIN 10-15 DYS LOTS OF INDIAN BECAME MY FRIENDS. I ATTENDED 10-15 PARTIES TILL DATE.VERY MUCH INTERACTION WTH THEM AS NAVRATRI& DIWALI THIS YEAR I CELEBRATED WTH THEM.

AMERICAN BORN CONFUSED DESI[A.B.C.D]VERY COMMAN WORD FOR INDIAN-AMERICAN IN AMERICA...

PEOPLE CAME TO AMERICA 2 BROADEN THEIR BANK BALANCE. THEY ACHEIVED THEIR FINACIAL TARGET BUT SOME HOW THEY ARE STILL IN INDIA BY THEIR MIND. KEEP INCREASING BANK BALANCE AS IN SAME SPEED REDUCING BROADMIDEDESS THATS WHY THEY ARE STILL DESI. THEY EVEN DONT REALISE THAT INDIA HAS FAR AWAY AHEAD AFTER THEY REACHED TO USA. AFTER COMING HERE THEIR MIND'S ARE STILL INTHAT PHASE OF INDIA, THE TIME THEY COME.THEIR CHILDREN ARE GROWN UP/BORN HERE SO THEY ARE AMERICAN BORN, THEY KNOW INDIAN CULTURE BY CELEBRATING FESTIVALS ON HOLIDAYS OR GOING TO SUNDAY RELIGIOUS CLASS. THEIR MIND'S ARE BROADEN AS THEY BROUGHT UP HERE IN HALF INDIAN-HALF AMERICAN WAY.

GROWING UP CHILD IS MAJOR HEADACHE OF PARENTS. AS PARENTS ARE HAPPY TO HUG AMERICAN DOLLARS BUT DO NOT HAVE GUTTS TO HUG AN AMERICAN CULTURAL FREEDOM. THEY WANT THEIR CHILD TO USE"THE LAND OF OPPORTUNITY" IN STUDIES, BUISNESS & ALL, BUT SAME TIME THEY DID NOT GIVE THEM MUCH FREEDOM..

THEY ARE SO CONFUSED WHAT TO DO..?RATHER GIVING TRUE ADVICE&FREEDOM THEY WANT THEIR GIRLS TO GO GIRLS CONVENT SCHOOL. THEY FORCE THEIR CHILDREN TO ATTEND ALL CULTURE ACTIVITIES GOING IN MANDIR OR OTHER INDIAN'S PLACES SAKE OF APNI SANSKRITI..

BUT WHAT THEY ACHIEVED?? THEY STILL ARE IN THEIR TIME PERIOD. NOW INDIA IS ALSO SOOOO CHANGED. GRLS/BOYS OVER IN INDIA HVE GF/BF IN VERY YOUNG AGE..WHY PARENTS OVER HERE NOT LIKE THT THEIR KIDS HVE BF/GF?? JUST BECAUSE D SAKE OF TO TEACH THEM LESSONS OF MORALITY?? THEY DONT UNDERSTAND THE DIRECTION OF WINDS HAS CHANGED..

BETTER PART IS IN USA CULTURE IS AT LEAST PARENTS KNW MY DAUGHTER/SON IS HAVING DATE WITH HIS/HER BF/GF. NOT LIKE INDIA , THINGS HAPPEN BEHIND THE SCENE..

ACCEPT THE GLOBALITY। FREEDOM IS IN THE AIR। COMMON GIVE THEM BETTER ADVICE & LET THEM EXPLORE THE WORLD। TEACH THEM PROS &CONS OF EVERY EXPECT OF WHAT THEY ARE GOING TO DO। YOUR CHILD SAY LIE TO YOU, ITS BETTER YOU TEACH ABOUT CONTRACEPTIVE TO YOUR CHILD। WHY SO FEAR॥?? WHEATHER YOU BELIEVE OR NOT THEY DO WHATEVR THEY WANT। ITS BETTER TO PUT HAND ON THEIR BACK TO SUPPORT IN DIFFICULTIES RATHER THEN PUSHING THEM AWAY....

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