Antim Sanskaar

Yeh zindagi kab kahan kaisa mod le le kise pata chalta hai? Zindagi hai to sapne bhi hote hai. Kuch poore kuch adhure aur hote hai kuch aise bhi jo toot jaate hai aur sath tod dete hume bhi.

         Pata nahi kab yeh sapne zindagi ka hissa bante chale gaye. Pata na tha ki yeh wo kamzoor sapne hai jo apne sath bahut kuch le jayenge. Yeh tutate rahe par ussne  apne aap ko kabhi unke sath tootne nahi diya. Buland iraade rakhe aur himmat bhi. Waqt gujarta gaya , sapne bade hote gaye aur sath hi poora hone ki aas bhi..

           Woh waqt dheere dheere aane laga jab himmat bhi kamzoor padne lagi, ehsaas to hua par dil ne manne se inkaar kiya. Har koshish nakamyabi ki seedhi banti chali gayi. Aisa nahi tha ki usse kuch nahi mila....mila na--''tareefe aur tareefe''. Par... ''tareefo se kya kabhi pet bhara hai kisi ka..??'' Kamyaabi wahi kehlati hai jo pet ke sath aapka bank balance bhi bhare.

             Aaya fir woh din jisne badal di uski duniya..''ek antim koshish aaj''..yahi soch ke nikali thi ghar se..issi ke liye ki thi mehnat peechle 25-20 dino se. Itn jyada yakeen tha ki aaj milegi asli kaamyabi.. Din gujarta gaya aur gujar gaye uske sapne bhi. Aaj woh toot gayi poori tarah...Kisi tarah usne apne sapno ko sameta aur ek ek karke har sapne ko dafan kar diya, usse kahan pata tha ki unsapno ke sath woh apni aatma bhi dafan kar rahi hai..Bakse{box} ko band karte hi laga aatma to andar hi kahi hai baki saaman ke sath...

             Woh baksa uske sapno ka hi nahi varan uska apna taboot ban gaya. Yeh kaisa antim sanskaar tha..na koi aaya na kisi ne dua ki aur bass- - - -

SAB KUCH KHATAM HO GAYA

SAB KUCH KHATAM HO GAYA

'' KASH WOH APNI EK ANTIM ICHA POORI KAR PAATI,

UNSAPNO KE SATH USSI TABOOT MEIN KHUD BHI SO JATI...''

UNDERSTANDING

Apart from relatives before marriage we have certain relations or friends are important for us. They really mean to us, but I have seen that after marriage most of time partner didn't understand or realise that those relation are really mean to other partner and we should respect them also.

 If husband's friends are important so wife should be cooperative and meet and maintain that friendship is important. Same applies for husband also, if some relations are important for wife than he should respect them equally.

 Why friendship ruin after marriage? I didn't understand this. I seen it from very closely as it happen in our friendship circle also. Distance in cities or homes doesn't make distance in heart, I believe in it and really mean it also.

 Every person has its own positive and negative. I believe maintain the relationship is tough and loosing friends are so easy. Easy ways are most of time are wrong. Beauty of relationship is to maintain it not ruin it . What if  friend of your's partner is not think same as you, not same age as you, not in same status as you.... these all  should not matter in friendship.

What really matter in friendship please tell me.....

AKELAPAN

''Baras rahi ghanghor ghata,

chal musafir chatri utha

chalna hai tujhko akele

chahe ghata garje ya bijli chamke

hai kaal raat ke kaal andhere

saye talak na sath hai tere

kar na kisi se aas tu abb

apno ne sath diya hai kab??

gar manjil tumhe pani hai

apni rah khud banani hai

toofano mein kashti chalani hai

madya manjhdhaar mein hi thah pani hai !!''