I don't have any answer for this Mona. I just say this but question asked by her still keeping my mind working.
I started thinking all the things said by her....
No 1 is perfect in this world. But when we idolised someone from childhood and after a long period we got to know that he is not with that strong character.
We can forgive our friends for all mistake they do, even our brother sister at some extend, but can we forgive our parents so easily & comfortably for their mistakes ?
----- here the point... NO we can't...specially when its come to our ideal is our own father ..
Same thing happen to her. Her ideal was every thing to her. But same time as a women she always thought some personal things are not good in him. She even don't like his father-mother's ''sweet-sour'' relationship as sour is more there. But in young age she got to know a very bad part of her father. She was just shattered....
She talked to me only. She asked ''can i ever forgive my father or have same faith on him now..?'' this is one mistake that i knw , its make me more ''shaqui'' as now onwards i am not going to have that much faith on him.
I don't have any answers. I just keep saying calm down. What else i can say ? as this is very personal n confidential matter.
But my point is... someone can forgive his/her parent's mistake...? & treat them as normal other human being ..?
WHEN WE FORGIVE OUR FRIENDS RELATIVES EVEN SIBLINGS THAN WHY NOT PARENTS ? I KNOW ITS VRY DIFFICULT BUT THEY ARE ALSO HUMAN BEINGS THEY CAN ALSO DO MISTAKES...
BUT WE BOTH ARE IN GREAT DELIMMA ....
WHAT YOU SAY GUYS ....PLZ DO COMMENT..
